人生莫待绽放 Don’t Wait for Life to Start
“There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept responsibility for changing them.” ~Denis Waitley
Many people are constantly waiting for their life to start. “When I’m older I’ll do this” and “In a few years I’ll do that.” They think the life they are experiencing is boring and meaningless.
很多人 都在等待自己生命的新起点，总说“等我长大一点，我会做这个”又或者“几年后，我要做那个”。他们觉 得现在的生活很乏味无趣。
Who has never viewed himself/herself as worthless and unattractive?
In others’ eyes, you are always “the funny one” and became loud and overconfident to mask what I was actually feeling, but few people know about the way you felt.
在别人的眼中，你可能是一个“很有趣的人”。你用大 声喧嚣和过度的自信来掩盖自己真正的想法，以致身 边的人都看不透你。
All of us may suffer with depression and frustration, lose guidance and support, need aids physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
我们所 有人都会经历挫折和沮丧，失去指引和支持，无论物质、情感还 是精神上都急切需要治愈。
Just think like this way:
“This too shall pass.”
Horrible feelings I am feeling will eventually go away.
I need to stop feeling so sorry for myself and actually want to change. I am an incredibly lucky person who have come from a family who love and support my whole life.
不应再自怨自艾，而要切 切实实地谋求改变。能有一 个爱护和支持自己的家庭，你已经 是世上非常幸运的人了。
I had to be the one to make the decision to change my way of thinking.
All the good things and all the wonderful people in my life would pass eventually too. While I am feeling miserable, my life is still going on and I am missing out on appreciating those precious moments.
跟不幸一样，在你生 命中所有好的事情、身边很棒的人，同样会 有离你而去的一天。当自己 沉溺于痛苦之中，而生命 的时间漏斗仍不停流转，那你将 错过那些值得赞美的珍贵时刻。
We all have horrible things happen to us that will affect each of us differently.
The important thing to remember is that our problems aren’t what define us. What defines us is how we deal with what has happened to us; how we change the way we think about it.
重要的是，你要记住，我们遇 到的问题不能定义我们的本质。能定义我们的，是我们 处理问题的方法，以及我 们对待问题的态度转变。
We can either let it become us or we can use our new found wisdom to change the little bit of world around us all.
There’s something much bigger than us and our problems. It is always important to remember that there is always someone who is in a position much worse than our own.
比我们 自身和我们所遇到的问题还重要的事情大有所在。切勿忘 记永远有人比我们遭遇的更糟糕。
Nevertheless, I am well on the way to becoming the person I want to be and I have goals and expectations of myself. I am now aware that my life has started.
然而，我们有 自己的目标和期待，并在自 己选择的人生道路上很好的前进着。我们必 须从现在起意识到属于自己的人生其实已经开始。
It started years ago and it’s not nearly over yet. It’s happening right now. Yours is too.